The most common explanation for people’s inability to find love may appear to be self-evident. However, it is a problem that affects everyone. No one would do it if it was so obvious. People who refuse to listen are the number one reason why they are unable to find love.
I’m sure most of them believe they’re being heard. In certain ways, we’re conditioned to act as though we’re listening.
People feel that listening entails making eye contact and remaining silent. For the record, the majority are not silent. Every time they don’t like what they hear, they cut the other person off. Others, on the other hand, are listening in order to answer. Others are listening and making comparisons between what is being said and what they have previously heard. In any instance, they are not paying attention to understand what is being said. You’ll note that only a few questions are asked. When they do, it’s to debunk what’s being said.
It is unlikely that you will understand them if you do not listen. The more important question is: what do people listen to when they are being spoken to? Many people are unaware that they are listening to belief systems that they absorbed from their surroundings. As a result, they make snap decisions without considering what they’re really hearing.
There are a plethora of situations in which two persons are compatible. They can’t notice it because they’re not paying attention. They may believe that the individual does not fit their picture. Simultaneously, most people are incompatible. However, they are unaware of this truth because they were not paying attention. They may believe the person fulfills shallow requirements in these circumstances.
People, believe it or not, need to be taught how to listen. It isn’t taught in our current societal framework.